Wedding Band FAQ: Everything Couples Need to Know Before Buying
Shopping for wedding bands is one of the most meaningful parts of your wedding planning journey, but it can also come with a lot of questions. Whether you’re choosing a classic gold wedding band, a custom diamond wedding band, or something totally unique, we’ve put together answers to the most commonly asked questions to help guide you.
STYLE & DESIGN QUESTIONS
Do our wedding bands have to match?
Not at all! While some couples choose matching wedding bands as a symbol of unity, it’s just as common to pick rings that reflect your personal styles. You can coordinate with matching metals or engraving, or go completely different, your wedding bands are a reflection of you.Should the wedding band match the engagement ring?
If you want a cohesive look, matching the metal color and style can create a seamless stack. But many brides opt for contrast or sparkle by adding a diamond wedding band, contour band, or gemstone wedding band that adds interest to their engagement ring. Ultimately, we think you should pick what you think looks best! There is no hard and fast rule about choosing a wedding band.Can I mix metals between my engagement ring and wedding band?
Absolutely. Mixed metals are a growing trend. It’s all about personal preference and choosing what looks best on your hand.What are the most popular styles for men’s wedding bands?
Men’s wedding bands come in a range of styles from classic plain bands to modern mixed-metal and hammered finishes. While a 4-6MM Half Dome is the tried and true best seller, popular choices also include platinum men’s wedding bands, brushed white gold, black tungsten, and bands with hidden gemstones or custom engravings.What’s the difference between a wedding band and a diamond eternity band?
A diamond eternity band features diamonds (or other gemstones) set all the way around the ring, offering maximum sparkle. Eternity bands are a popular choice for those who want their wedding ring to shine just as much as the engagement ring.MATERIALS & DURABILITY
What’s the best metal for a wedding band?
Gold and platinum are the most traditional and durable choices. Platinum is heavier and more hypoallergenic, while 14k and 18k gold come in multiple color options (white, yellow, and rose). Alternative metals like tungsten, titanium, and cobalt are popular for men’s bands due to their toughness and lower price point, but aren't able to be sized down the road.Is platinum better than white gold?
Platinum is more durable and naturally white, while white gold is traditionally more affordable and requires occasional rhodium re-plating to keep its shine. If you're looking for a low-maintenance ring that will last a lifetime, platinum is a strong choice.Are lab-grown diamonds good for wedding bands?
Yes! Lab diamond wedding bands offer the same brilliance and durability as natural diamonds at a more accessible price point. They’re a great option for couples looking for budget-friendly sparkle.Can I get a wedding band with gemstones?
Absolutely. Gemstone wedding bands with sapphires, rubies, or emeralds are unique and colorful alternatives to diamonds. They're also a popular choice for anniversary bands or stacking alongside your wedding ring.
COMFORT & FIT
What is a comfort-fit wedding band?
A comfort-fit band has a slightly domed interior, which makes it easier to slide over your knuckle and more comfortable to wear daily, especially in wider men’s wedding bands.How wide should my wedding band be?
Band width is a personal choice. Women’s wedding bands typically range from 1.5mm–3mm, while men’s wedding bands tend to fall between 4mm–8mm. Try on a few widths to see what feels best for your hand!How do I figure out my ring size?
Visit Herzog Jewelers for a professional sizing! We offer this service free of charge. With wedding bands, sizing isn't as straight forward as you may think. There are a number of factors that impact what size you end up with, including style, width, finger anatomy, and number of bands you plan to wear. We'll also consider things like temperature and time of day, as fingers can swell or shrink.Can my wedding band be resized later?
Most gold and platinum bands can be resized. However, bands made from tungsten or titanium usually cannot, but can often be exchanged at a lesser price point. Eternity bands or custom wedding bands with full stone settings may also have limited resizing options.
PRACTICALITY & LIFESTYLE
What type of wedding band is best for an active lifestyle?
If you work with your hands or have an active routine, let us know! We can make recommendations for more durable settings and metals that will ensure you will be able to wear your ring for years to come. And don't forget: there are some activities you shouldn't be wearing your rings for.Can I wear my wedding band all the time?
Yes, but it's smart to remove it when doing certain activities. Working out, heavy lifting, gardening, and working with chemicals can all be extra hard on your jewelry. Even daily activities like doing the dishes or opening car doors can cause your ring to wear over time. Regular cleaning and inspections will help keep your wedding band in top shape and prevent costly repairs before they happen. At Herzog Jewelers, we offer complimentary clean & inspects for all rings and bands any time we're open, even if they weren't purchased with us.What if I have a metal allergy?
Let us know! Platinum and palladium are great hypoallergenic options. If you’re sensitive to nickel, avoid certain white gold alloys or ask us for nickel-free metals.BUDGET & SHOPPING TIMELINE
How much should we spend on wedding bands?
There’s no set rule. Our most common price points fall between $500–$5,000 per band, depending on metal type, custom design, or diamonds. Lab diamond wedding bands and plain gold wedding bands are great value-driven choices.Do wedding bands ever go on sale?
Yes—here at Herzog's we typically have seasonal sales that vary in offering. It never hurts to ask us if promotions are available!Should we buy both wedding bands at the same time?
It’s a great idea! Shopping together can be fun and ensures both partners find rings they love.When should we buy our wedding bands?
Ideally, you should purchase your wedding bands at least 2–3 months before your wedding day, especially if you're ordering custom wedding bands or need time for resizing or engraving. We also offer 12 months same as cash financing, which may be helpful to consider for wedding budgeting!
CUSTOM WEDDING BANDS
Can I design my own custom wedding band?
Yes! Custom wedding bands are a popular choice for couples who want something truly one-of-a-kind. Whether you’re matching an engagement ring, incorporating heirloom stones, engraving meaningful details, or designing a band from scratch—custom is the way to go for a deeply personal touch.How does the custom wedding band process work?
The process typically starts with a consultation where you share inspiration, materials, or special requests. We will then create a design concept with a sketch or digital rendering (and occasionally a wax model upon request). Once approved, the ring is handcrafted and finished by our jewelers. Custom wedding bands usually take a few weeks to complete, so it’s smart to start early.Can men get custom wedding bands too?
Absolutely. Men’s custom wedding bands are a great way to express personal style. Whether you want to add a fingerprint engraving, mix metals, include a hidden birthstone, or replicate a meaningful symbol. Custom doesn’t have to mean flashy; it can be as subtle or bold as you like.Are custom wedding bands more expensive?
Not always. Pricing depends on the complexity of the design and the materials used. For example, a simple custom gold band might cost less than an off-the-shelf diamond band. Many couples are surprised to find that designing their own wedding bands is more accessible than they thought.Why choose a custom wedding band?
Sometimes a premanufactured band just doesn't cut it! A custom wedding band is more than a piece of jewelry—it’s a personal story in wearable form. It allows you to express your unique relationship, mark a milestone, or craft something that will never be duplicated. If you want a wedding ring that’s meaningful and made just for you, custom is a perfect choice.
READY TO FIND YOUR PERFECT MATCH?
Whether you’re looking for a classic gold band, a men’s wedding band that fits your lifestyle, or a lab diamond wedding band with timeless sparkle, our team is here to help you find the perfect fit. Visit us in-store to explore our full collection of wedding bands—or ask us about creating a custom design that’s uniquely yours.